COMMUNICATION TIPS!

Assalamualaikum..

For the better part of every day, we are communicating to and with others. We must know how important is to communicate effectively  to reach a common understanding with different races and culture.

Here i share with u oll....

a) People regard themselves as special and important

People are selfish.Personal interest and the interest of those close to them comes first.

Kepentingan diri di utamakan

example: gambar siapa yang korang tengok jika ambik group photo?of cozla gambar korang kan...

b) People will uphold their dignity

exp: if u has been shamed, u will try to uphold his views although  u knows it its wrong.Betul tak,,jage air muka sendiri.

c)People need caring

Physical Caring:hand shake, shoulder tapping, touching etc

Phychological Caring: face to fate interaction,giving appreciation

d) People 'remember' thing

its hard to forget 2 things: Bitter incidents and sweet memories.

e) No two persons are alike

Every person has his/her strengths and weakness. people are difference.

Technique 1: LISTENING SKILL

H: Hear with your ears and listen with your face

E: Establish eye contact

A: Acknowledge by words such as ' is see" and nodding ask question for     clarification

R:Repeat what he/she has just said to avoid misunderstanding

T:Thanks and appreciating other people's opinion and beliefs

Technique 2: DON'T FORGET TO USE S.A.L.A.M

S:Say out greetings and call name

A:Ask 2 simple ques

L:let out sincere praise

A:Ask 3 simple ques about work/studies

M:Make way(Excuse self) 

 Technique 3:HEY USE SALAM M.E.S.R.A. ALSO!

SALAM MESRA: used to increase the relationship quality with people who you have a good or strong relationship.

M:Make eye contact

E: establish matching facial expression

S:Smile and shake hand

R:Reduce your distance

A:Acknowledge with nodding 

 Technique 4:R.E.S.P.E.C.T

R:Relationship needs to be established first before u are able to influence anyone

E:engage your EQ to get close to people

S:Supply your HEART to win them over

P:persuade them based on established spirit & understanding

E:Excellent influencing skills

C: Coercion and force will not lead you to fruitful outcome

T:Take their point of view for consideration  and impress upon them 

Technique 5: J.A.L.I.N 

J:Joy! set your mind to enjoy talking to people

A:Always remember people are different
L:Let Go! 

I:Intimate relationship helps but remember there is a border

N:Never never look down at other people 

 ENJOY YOUR COMMUNICATION! :)